Thursday, February 24, 2011

Romantic at Heart

Over the years, I've collected magazines and saved pages of rooms and gardens that appeal to me. There is considerable variety in the ones I've held onto (and put into a binder), but I've tried to figure out what the commom thread is that unites them.
The verdict is in: I'm a romantic, with a dash of country--not to be confused with western. I've not forsaken my traditional roots, they are are just slowly eroding to make way for a softer feminine style.

No room in my house looks like either of these, but I just heart them. Don't know that Shane would ever be ok with me going off the deep end into this style (and I don't know if I'd want to), but there is something really beautiful and peaceful about a romanctic look to me. Maybe I'll be able to incorporate tidbits of this type of design into mi casa. Until then, I have my binder.

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Double


I have been meaning to tell you about Dubs for a while...I guess really since the beginning of this blog. Double is our youngest child--at least til May. He is in Kindergarten. Shane sold a Harley so that we could have Dubs. Not really. Well, kinda. Shane was very hesitant to "try" for more children, mainly due to financial burdens. He sold his Harley (which paid off our debt) and then agreed to give it a go. So the bike left in July and we were preggo in August. Nice how that worked out!! LOL
I can't tell you exactly why I thought he was different early on, but I felt it. I mentioned Autism to a few friends, but none of them seemed to think he could be autistic. We went through a lot of changes in a short time and I didn't pursue answers. Long story short, Dubs had sensory processing disorder (specifically tactile defensiveness).
After about a year of weekly Occupational Therapy and a daily sensory diet (not food), he made enough progress to be released. {He was three when he started OT. At the time, he wasn't able to put together three word phrases. It only took a couple of months for the language to start developing and we saw huge progress.}
His needs changed our whole family and opened our eyes. I'm so thankful that we were able to get excellent therapy and that Dub's doesn't have such severe overreactions to his environment anymore. We still face challenges associated with sensory issues, but are so grateful for the improvements.
Peanut butter is a staple in this boy's diet. Everyday. He is trying new foods all the time. Even if he puts up a fight, his aversion to new tastes and textures is diminishing. We waited four years for him to try pizza! Honestly, he is probably our healthiest child. Our other two together don't consume the amount of fruit and granola that he does.
At dinner, we have recently started giving him what we all are eating. Sometimes it goes well, and other times it is a small battle. He has recently told us that my chicken casserole was a choking hazard (and that is why he didn't want to try it). Nice.


Double can devour books. Seriously. It is obviously a gift that only God could give him(and for all you smartmouths, duh, I know that every gift comes from Him:). Some people have assumed it's because I home school. It is not. I can't take the credit. W didn't learn to read from E-Dog or Tater. He basically taught himself. (Only in the last several months have I introduced phonics so that I know he is learning to read correctly, and not just memorizing a ton of sight words.)
Shortly after he began therapy (at 3) he started to read. Before that, he had a huge interest in letters and numbers. He would see them everywhere---even on a toilet paper holder in a public restroom(he saw the number 9).
So he is wrapping up Kindergarten, but is reading at around a second to third grade level. Since it is his passion he reads for enjoyment. I've also noticed that he reads to decompress, so books are really a blessing to our little guy. Even during VBS last summer, I would take him out of his class for breaks and he would sit in the hall and read. Then he could re-enter class and have an easier time doing what was required.
What else does Double like? Anything physical! He loves soccer, basketball, freeze tag, wrestling(with his brother and Dad), riding his bike, and going fast(on anything, anywhere).
We love our W. In the almost six years we've had him, we have learned so much from his little life. Love you, Dubs!!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Maybe Not


This weekend I went out in search for a pair of "skinny" maternity jeans. Got to Motherhood (after foolishly going to the mall and realizing they aren't there anymore because they moved to Turkey Creek) and grabbed a few to try.

Now, I have previously tried on skinny jeans in my pre-preggo state and they were um...not flattering. Basically they highlighted everything about my body that I would ordinarily try to disguise. But, for fashions sake I at least attempted them. Didn't purchase.

Fast forward to this past Saturday. Got my self tanner on(not that it makes your shape change, but thought it might help the ol' confidence) and I was ready to see if maybe now (23 weeks pregnant) the skinny jeans would work.

To my utter disappointment they are just as hideous on me as ever. Now mind you I don't think that the majority of people who wear them should either, but I was hoping that maybe, just maybe they would work.((SIGH)) They didn't. Was not close to the above picture.

As I stood there checking my reflection out, I concluded (even though they were by one, get one half off) they shouldn't go home with me. If I didn't look like a lollipop entering the dressing room, I certainly did in that moment. Well, maybe it was more like a pear with two tapered stems supporting it from the bottom. It wasn't right. No skinny maternity jeans for this momma...and you should be thankful.;)

What trends did you want to try only to later decide that you couldn't pull off?